Why is Reflection Important: Approaching the Year Ahead Without New Year Resolutions

Early in the year, I start thinking about what I want to achieve for the upcoming twelve months, both personally and in my business 

Why is reflection important?  

This isn’t about new year resolutions as such, it is more about a realistic plan for how I would like this year to run.  

For me, this process is as much about experience as it is about outcomes. Of course, there are practical considerations: work to deliver, responsibilities to manage, income to generate. But numbers and targets only tell part of the story.  It is as much about experiences as hard facts and figures.

One question sits at the heart of my planning every year:

How do I want to feel in December when I look back on this year?

Not just what will I have achieved — but how will I feel having lived it?

Because if the year leaves me exhausted, disconnected, or constantly pushing against myself, then the achievements won’t hold much meaning. I want to feel steady, engaged, and aligned with what matters most to me.

I also know that much of what will happen this year hasn’t been revealed yet.

Uncertainty is part of life and work, whether we welcome it or not. I find that both energising and, at times, mildly terrifying.

Over time, I’ve learned that uncertainty isn’t something to eliminate,  it’s something to prepare for.

Preparing for future challenges is never a waste of time.

As part of planning for the year ahead, I think about what might be difficult. Not pessimistically, but practically. Where am I likely to feel stretched? What decisions might require courage rather than clarity? What situations could test my confidence or capacity?

From there, I begin to plan how I might meet those challenges.

I ask myself:

  • How important is this to me, really?

  • If it doesn’t feel meaningful, am I focusing on the right thing?

  • How much time and energy will this require?

  • Do I already have the experience and expertise to move forward?

  • If not, what support, learning, or perspective might I need?

These questions slow the process down, in a helpful way. They help me separate what is genuinely important from what simply feels urgent. They also remind me that I don’t need all the answers before I begin.

Approaching a new year with this kind of intention helps me take back a sense of control. Having a plan doesn’t mean the year will unfold neatly. It means I’ve taken the time to reflect before the pace picks up. It means I’ve thought about how I want to move through the year, not just what I want to get done.

And that, for me, is the real value of reflection.

So as we move into this new year, I’ll leave you with a question:

What challenges are you anticipating this year,  and how might you prepare for them in a way that supports not just what you do, but how you feel while doing it?

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This article invites readers to reflect on how they want to feel at the end of the year, rather than what they want to achieve. It explores intentional planning, preparing for challenges, and creating a realistic approach to career and leadership.

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